Starting My Journey at 52: Its Never Too Late
Margaret T., 52, Chef, New Orleans
At 52, I thought my intimate life was behind me. I had been married for 25 years and never explored my own pleasure. My focus had always been on my family, my restaurant, and everyone else except myself.
After my divorce, I realized I had been neglecting my own needs for decades. I spent so long taking care of others that I forgot to take care of myself. I decided it was time to change that.
My first experience was nerve-wracking but exciting. I chose a simple massager and took my time exploring. I was nervous at first, but quickly realized there was nothing to be ashamed of.
What I discovered was that pleasure has no age limit. My body still responds, and I still deserve to feel good. At 52, I am learning things about myself that I should have learned decades ago.
Now, at 52, I feel more alive than ever. I have started cooking more for myself, taking bubble baths, and yes, exploring my sexuality. Its never too late to start your journey.
The stigma around older women and sexuality is ridiculous. We are human beings with desires and needs, just like anyone else.